4th Anniversary Gift Ideas

It’s another installment of wedding anniversary gift ideas!  Today I’m sharing 4th anniversary gift ideas for him and her.  The traditional gift theme for the fourth wedding anniversary is fruit or flowers.  The modern gift theme is appliances.  But, as usual, I’m only going to cover the traditional gifts.  I feel like appliances are kind of an obvious topic anyway.

4th anniversary gift ideas

Let’s begin with the ladies.  It’s obviously a lot easier to shop for chicks with this theme.  Basically guys, you can buy your wife anything with a fruit or flower print on it– pillow, clothing, scarf, jewelry, bedding, plates, etc.  As with every anniversary, you best be getting your lady flowers– unless she’s allergic or straight up hates flowers; in that case you can get her an Edible Arrangement or something similar.

One really cool thing I found was custom wedding bouquet paintings.  I think it would be super sweet if my husband surprised me with a painting of my wedding bouquet.  I’d cry.  Probably.

4th anniversary gift ideas for hernecklacefresh flowerspillowcustom wedding bouquet paintingdressscarf

Now on to the guys.  This was a little harder because when I think of flowers and fruit I clearly don’t think of males.  But I found some creative ways to work with the theme,  mainly by playing off the lovely electronic manufacturer Apple.

4th anniversary gift ideas for himiPad • moonshineiHomepieapple TVgourmet caramel applesrose gold watch

Now, I came up with quite a few ideas that are pretty gender neutral and could be used as joint gifts.  Granted some of the gift ideas above are gender neutral.

4th wedding anniversary gift ideaswine making kit • champagne • fondue set • chocolate covered strawberriespotted fruit tree

A great surprise would to plant a flowering plant in your yard as a gift.  Whether your wife likes hydrangeas, tulips, or roses, I’m sure she’d be impressed if you went through the effort to plant one of her favorites to bloom in your yard year after year.

Maybe you and your spouse are more interested in doing something together rather than giving gifts.  If that’s the case, here are some fruit and flower ideas:
tour a botanical garden • wine tasting • weekend getaway at a vineyard b&b • trip to an orchard

Happy 4th anniversary to you and yours!

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  1. Meghan says

    I love all these ideas! Love the apple stuff for the guys… Such a creative take on the fruit! Also love the idea of doing something like a vineyard as an alternative. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary but this gives me tons of ideas! I too love the idea of the painting of your wedding bouquet!

  2. Shannon says

    Do you have a direct link to the dress? I love it but couldn’t find it on the first few pages of amazon – thanks!